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June 10, 2026 • 3 min read
A heartfelt letter to mom on her birthday, sharing memories and the family's upcoming journey.
Missing Mom on Her Birthday
Today, June 10th, would have marked Mom's 73rd birthday. It has been over a year since she left us after her brave battle with ovarian cancer that lasted more than six years. During those tough times, I learned to cherish every moment spent with her. We created a life filled with precious memories, which have brought me peace in my heart.
No one can predict time, and I feel fortunate to have had the chance to let Mom meet my children. I know many people never get to say goodbye to their loved ones, while we had a long time to part ways, even though it wasn't easy.
Unforgettable Emotions
Every day, I think of Mom. Not a single day goes by without thoughts of her, and almost every hour, she crosses my mind. Waves of emotion hit me unexpectedly. Sometimes I smile when I remember her, but other times, tears just flow freely. There are moments when I forget the sound of her voice, yet I can still hear her echoing in my mind.
Recently, during a work trip, I woke up in the middle of the night from a dream where Mom and I were traveling together. That feeling truly brought me peace, but just a few minutes later, I found myself in tears. My eldest son, Miles, is almost four years old. He still remembers Grandma very well. It's hard to express the joy that Miles brought to Mom, and that is something truly precious.
Family is Everything
I have always believed that family is the most important thing in life. While I am particularly lucky to have a loving family, many others do not have that. Therefore, I never take this for granted. It comforts me to know that Mom loved children so much, and being a good father will make her prouder and happier than anything else.
✈️ Tìm chuyến bay giá tốt
Đặt vé ngay với giá ưu đãi từ các hãng hàng không
This week, our family is embarking on a big trip. We have traveled long distances with Miles a few times before. However, this will be the first trip for Jet, my youngest son. We are about to set off on a month-long journey to Europe with both kids.
A Special Destination
During this trip, we will rent a house on a quiet island in Greece to keep things simple and provide a space for the kids to play. We will also spend a lot of time in Germany and Austria, and following some readers' advice, we decided to visit South Tyrol, a place I went to with my parents when I was young.
Finally, we will conclude our trip in Sylt, an island in Germany that Mom always adored. I hope we can scatter some of her ashes there, although I am still struggling with this idea, perhaps it's time to make it happen.
Things to Remember
When thinking about Mom, I often want to remind everyone to spend time with their loved ones, especially parents. Don’t forget those special trips and memorable moments. Ultimately, I want to send a message to those who are experiencing loss: "Time won't make the pain of loss easier, but you will find ways to cope with it." Sometimes, pain becomes an inseparable part of life.
I am very grateful for the time I had with Mom, even though the pain is always present. My two children cannot replace her, but they hold an important place in my heart. Remember this summer to let your loved ones know that you care about them, and seize the opportunity to create memories together.
Article adapted and edited from: One Mile at a Time
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